Being A Human Whisperer

We have the Ghost Whisperer, Dog Whisperer, Cat Whisperer, Horse Whisperer, but have we considered being the Mother of all whisperers? The Human Whisperer? i do know this sounds funny but it's the foremost basic life skill set we all must strive to possess. and that we think that as humans, we all know the way to do this?


The number ONE challenge that nearly all of my clients have is to be ready to communicate effectively. Whether it's with their family, loved ones, colleagues, clients or subordinates, this is often ONE BIG CHALLENGE.

Over the course of the last two to 3 weeks, it made me realise that the majority of the work that I even have been doing is basically about teaching people the way to communicate effectively. it's not about speaking well or having good diction. it's about communicating with each individual or group in such how that they get what i'm saying. Sometimes, i'm required to be tough/stern, others times i'm required to be soft and loving, and other times, it's important to be humorous. TIMING to try to to what and when is basically the key.

Some of the key challenges that the majority people face include:

communicating with self? Is there effective self talk that one has clarity within the direction they're heading?
communicating with others - Are your needs understood? Are you being heard?
is using voice better than touch? Or vice versa?
how to communicate effectively with a crowd in order that you're rallying them towards something positive
does being a pacesetter automatically cause you to an efficient communicator? Or is it the opposite way around?
If our communication skills are effective, then we'll certainly have less of a challenge in our relationship with others. it's a fundamental skill that we must have. However, it's also one among the foremost challenging to find out , and a skillset that's challenging to impart.
To effectively learn this skill, attending a workshop for the masses on tactics, techniques etc isn't sufficient. just because we are all different. One must learn to adapt these skills to different life situations and with different people.

I have found that certain communication skills I even have coached one client on, won't work on another as effectively. because the facilitator, i'm required to adapt to every of the requirements of my clients. Now, confine mind that as a teacher , it's necessary on behalf of me to possess this skill set. But the truth is, everyone should have these skill sets too. we'd like each other , that goes without saying, so our need for each other requires us to speak . If this skill is missing, not only are our own needs not being met, you'll not be ready to meet the requirements of others also , whether it's in an intimate relationship, social relationship or work relationship.

I just googled "how to speak your sexual must your partner". And there are over 7 million results. This just goes to point out that even the foremost basic human need isn't being met. Couples are having real difficulties communicating their basic must their partners. If this is often a challenge, what about other needs?

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